November Newsletter

This Month’s Spiritualitygirl.com Newsletter:

Mother Theresa said, “There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread.”

We’re in the month of November, which starts our season of giving. Think about times in your life that you give of yourself. What does that look like? Is it easier for us to give our money than our time, love and effort? Do we interact with people coming from a compassionate heart and mind? Or do we do so because we have to interact with them because we’ll loose our job, upset them or we have to keep peace? What do you give away of yourself – is it too much? Do you give away your dignity, your determination, your power, your strength? Do you give of what’s important to you – to your own detriment?

If not, good for you! If so, step back and ask yourself why. Giving of your heart is a beautiful thing and you shouldn’t stop doing that! It’s important to think about giving to yourself too, which is the theme of this month’s newsletter. Some would say this is selfish. Not so. How can you give to others is you’re not giving to yourself? What do you have to give anymore if you don’t start by giving to yourself? You need to be rejuvenated and regenerated to be your best everyday.

Did you ever have a time where you are running yourself ragged and all of a sudden you either oversleep or get sick? Listen to your body’s signals! It’s telling you to slow down and rest! Give the gift of rest to yourself! If you don’t, your body is going to do it for you. Why get yourself to that point?

I challenge you this month to find three ways to give back to yourself. Send me your ideas and I’ll publish them in next month’s newsletter (with your permission of course).

Let’s give to each other during this season of thanks. Start with you – you’ll be surprised at who you meet!

Have a Beautiful Month!
Mary


Tips for A Good Psychic Reading
There are many psychics, tarot, medium, angel and many other modality readers out there. It’s hard to sometimes decide who to read with and what kind of reading you should get. Some folks are even scared to get a reading because of what the psychic receives for information. Know that whatever a reader receives for information is just a snapshot of what is going on today. What you choose to do with that information, whether good or bad, is up to you. Your destiny is in your own hands.

If you’re interested in receiving a reading, here are some tips to make sure you get the best information possible:

Make sure you really want the reading. If you really don’t want to be read, don’t let anyone talk you into it, even if they offer to pay. Tell him or her you’ll take a rain check. More often than not, a reader will struggle to make a connection with you because your motives are not really to be read but to please or to quiet the other person. You have to be open to receive a reading and willing to make a connection with the reader so information can come through.

Be honest. There will be times the reader gets information that confuses them because it’s information only you would understand. For example, a reader may get some symbol or picture that doesn’t make sense and may ask you if it resonates with you.

For example, I once got a picture of a Stop Sign. I would interpret this as to stop doing something. The client told me about a scenario where they were with someone who had crossed over who pointed out a Stop Sign right before they got into an accident. The person did not want to come through other than to show me that symbol.

If a reader asks you a question, be honest in your answer. Tell them if it makes sense or not. There are a lot of clients that will lie to “test the reader”. If you are not sure whether or not you’re going to get a good reading, ask if there is a money back guarantee or don’t go at all.

Relax! There is no reason to be nervous. A reader cannot see anything that you don’t want them to see. Honestly. Also, ethical readers will not discuss your reading with anyone else (unless it is something that has to be reported by law). Readers are here to help you, not to judge you.

Tell the reader a topic or a specific question to focus on instead of asking for general information. Giving the reader a topic is more helpful than just saying, “I want a general reading.” If you stick to general, the reading will give you high-level information or information you really weren’t looking for that day. Tell the reader what you’re looking for; even if it’s several topics, they have a place to focus.

Leave enough time between readings. Unless there is a major change or you have something different you want to focus on, wait at least 3 months for a reading. It won’t give you enough time to implement or work on the information that came up in the reading if you go back too quickly. Save your money.

It’s okay if you want to ask a reader questions about their experience or reading style before you have a reading with him or her. Most readers will be happy to discuss their experience and expertise. All readers are not the same nor for everyone. While going to a reader is fun, treat it with respect because you’ll be amazed at what you’ll get.

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Angel Card Reading
(Using the Saints & Angels Deck by Doreen Virtue)

How can my clients draw more love into their lives in November?

Past – Sweetness/Guardian Angel
Present – Confidence/Archangel Michael
Future – Move/Guardian Angel


November is a time where the weather changes and can make you want to stay inside. It can be hibernating season, especially in the Northeast where I live. One of the ways to bring more love into your life, however, is to interact with other people! The past card, Sweetness, tells me that you need to reconnect with those folks who you’ve either made a connection with or someone who has done something kind for you in the past. Your Guardian Angels want to bring those feelings of compassion and kindness back to you and have you pass them on to someone else. One way to draw more love is to give more love. Bring yourself back to that time where you felt unconditional heartfelt care and pass it on.

This can also refer to being directing some of that Sweetness to yourself. Have you looked at your self care lately? Are you hard on yourself? Do you take time to pamper yourself, relax, and rest? If you don’t take time to give yourself some extra TLC, take a look at why you don’t do so. Is it because you don’t have time? Do you have to take care of someone else? Do you feel you don’t deserve it? Make a commitment to yourself today that you’ll add some extra self-love and self-care to your life as soon as possible. Here’s a suggestion on how to do so – record your favorite tv show instead of watching it live and take that time to care for yourself. You’ll love it!

It can be difficult to create self-love. But it’s crucial. Loving yourself will get you through interactions with others don’t turn out exactly as planned. How do you open your heart to someone else and not get hurt? Your inner strength and love is what carries you through those tough times. It gives you the confidence that Archangel Michael is known for each day. Archangel Michael says that in order to have the courage to connect to others, you have to connect with yourself using an open heart. Accept your downfalls and shortcomings, they can always be improved or changed. They are a part of you, no matter what. The Confidence card comes up in the present and it says to open yourself to your own self love. Know that it comes from you first. Then you can have the confidence to touch others with happiness and joy.

Are there things in your life that you have to examine, revise or cut away? Archangel Michael offers his sword to cut through any fear or reservations of relating not only to others, but yourself. Have the courage to look at who you are – you’re beautiful!

Call on Archangel Michael to assist you in cutting away those things that no longer serve you. If they are unhealthy attachments to people, places, things or habits, you can visualize (or feel, hear, or know Archangel Michael is around, depending on what resonates with you) him cutting away those things which no longer serve you. Ask him to them replace those attachments with golden or white light.

So now that you’ve mastered generating that energy and feeling in yourself to give to others, the future card tells us to Move. Our Guardian Angels want us to inspire others to create these opportunities and situations. It’s about time we encouraged others to feel light and love. This means moving on your own path to your destiny and then sharing that with others. It takes the present one step further by sharing your self-love with others.

This may not just be a romantic relationship between two people, by the way. This may be a love of family, friends, co-workers, or others. Everyday when we interact with people, even strangers, we can come from a place of love.

There doesn’t have to be attachment – do things for each other out of kindness, even if it’s just a kind word or a smile. In your present, take a look at your life and determine if there are places you can deliver even more love to others each day. So while “on the move”, leave behind your stamp of unique love and happiness.

The bottom line is to bring more love into your life, start with you and then offer it to others. You may be surprised at the feelings you’ll have giving the love gift to others. It’s a cycle that brings love back to you. If you’re like me, believe in that power of 3, what you send out for energy, comes back times 3. Who wouldn’t want to experience all that love?

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Thanks for reading my newsletter.
Mary (Spiritualitygirl)

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